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You're back, I see, calorie-obsessive anon.

You're still obssessive. You still need help. F!S is still not the place for that help.

Look, just because you don't care about being healthy, doesn't mean everyone else doesn't care.

AYRT cares enough to urge you to seek help. As have many other people upthread. You need medical help.

If that's the case, then EAT. If you can't consider the very well meaning advice here that maybe this is something more then just a diet and you should see somebody about it.

Edited 2015-05-20 01:59 (UTC)

You obviously don't care all that much if you're coming to FS to fix you instead of going to your damn doctor, who can actually help you.

Except they (or you, idk) AREN'T being healthy. There is nothing healthy about being this pathologically obsessive about weightloss and calorie counting.

And if they are doing everything right and still not getting the results they want? Then that brings in possible hormonal issues, vitamin deficiencies, diabetes, a whole host of ALSO UNHEALTHY things that they aren't getting addressed while they're bemoaning the calories in green beans on F!S.

Having your legs literally shaking from hunger after a handful of hours without food isn't healthy.

Hunger waking you up at night isn't healthy.

Thinking about food and eating and hunger 24/7 isn't healthy.

Months and months spent posting the same thing on this comm as though we're all medical doctors who can magically fix everything is not healthy.

The sheer level of denial that you have a problem with this isn't healthy.

Obsession and fixation isn't healthy (you're confusing it with dedication and self-discipline).

You know what IS healthy? Recognizing you have a problem and seeking help for it from the correct people who can actually assess and help you.

Has the definition of healthy changed? Because feeling so weak you think your legs are going to collapse beneath you doesn't fit any definition of "healthy" that I'm aware of. If this is you, calorie-counting anon, I realize that you're in this too deep to realize you need help. To you, this seems normal and everyone else is nuts.

But just listen to how that sounds... how is it possible that only you have a sane and healthy idea of how to diet and exercise healthily and nobody else? It's not. People are reading your account and correctly identifying unhealthy behavior that is a danger to your health. Please see a doctor. This obsession is actually going to make healthy weight loss harder, not easier. Please.

AYRT

I very much care. In this instance, I care more about your mental health than your physical health, although given the worrying things you've said in this thread, I see your behavior is beginning to have a detrimental effect on that too.

I realize that you don't recognize that you have a problem. That's normal. That's fine. You don't see the obsessional behavior as a problem, you think you're doing the right thing, the healthy thing. You don't understand why people are telling you to stop doing something you think is healthy. You think right now that to stop doing that would be the unhealthy, careless, reckless thing to do.

But can you look, just a little bit objectively, at how you've responded to me here? Can you see how defensive you are? Can you see how you never seem to address the excellent advice you've had from many people, not only in this thread but in all the others you've posted (at least since the beginning of the year, if not longer -- hence why we're worried about your shaky legs. A diet you've been on for that long should not be having that effect on you this late in the game). Can you see that you're clinging very, very hard to your BMR and BMI figures (BMI especially is a flawed system that does not take muscle or build into account), and the exact calorie numbers in things?

I get that you think you're right. I get that you think there's no problem with what you're doing.

So just humor me. If you're doing everything properly and there's no problem at all, then it won't do any harm to visit your doctor, explain to them that you're on a diet and feeling a little shaky sometimes, can they please check out the basics via blood tests etc. Also, could they look over your diet plan and suggest anywhere you might be able to make changes.

No one here is attacking you. We want you to get help. We want you to be happy and healthy in your own body. Can you honestly tell me that's the case right now? And if not, then like I said, what harm can a chat with your doctor do? Isn't that a better alternative to feeling miserable and hungry and talking to people on F!S who literally cannot help you?

Anon, people care about their health and your health. Frankly, you don't sound to healthy right now. You're practically obsessed and I'm sincerely worried for your mental and physical health. Stress and anxiety itself burns loads of calories so I'd wonder if that isn't adding to your hunger.

Please take all your diet notes and go see a doctor :( and explain your problems.

You are almost right about that. F!S is not the BEST place for help, but people do care and want OP to gt help.

Mostly we want OP to see a doctor and eat a bit more, but telling her so is how we are helping.

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