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⌈ Secret Post #3060 ⌋

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Re: Support/Vent Thread

[(Anonymous)]

I'm kind of afraid I weirded a friend out and hurt our relationship. But maybe I'm reading too much into the situation? I have an anxiety disorder, so I know I can make myself crazy sometimes over things that other people had no idea were even bothering me.

Here's the run down: fairly close friend of mine, known each other for like 5 years, recently did some self-examination and came out as bisexual. One night we and her bf were drinking, and she asked him if he'd want to have a threesome with a girl if she found someone willing, because while she has no intention of leaving him, she would like to experience sex with a woman. He agreed.

In the few months afterward, I started thinking maybe I should offer. I have no interest in her romantically, but we're friends and thought maybe that would make it easier for her, since she's quite shy about meeting people, and I've never actually been in a threesome, so I'm curious and would like to try it. So we went out to lunch one day and I brought up the subject. Wasn't pushy, and said I'd understand if she thought it would be awkward or she wasn't into the idea, but I wanted to let her know it was an option if they so desired. She said she was on board, and she would ask her bf.

That was months ago, and I never heard anything more about it. The three of us have hung out a few times since then, though more rarely than we normally do, and I never brought it up, because they didn't bring it up. I'm not sure if she even asked him about it, so I don't want to talk about it in front of him because I wasn't sure it was my place. The thing that's mostly bothering me is, she seems to be avoiding spending any time alone with me recently, whereas before we would go out to lunch or go to the movies without bf on a fairly regular basis. I don't even know if she's actually avoiding me, or if I'm just reading too much into our schedules not meshing, or what. This is something I normally would just ask her about, but I haven't had a chance to, because we've not had any one-on-one time. Arrgh.

Re: Support/Vent Thread

[blitzwing]

My guess would be the BF probably said Hell No, out of insecurity over it. Threesome with a random girl on Craigslist? Sure. Threesome with a good friend? Oh Hell No She's Going to Leave Me for Her.

She's probably being awkward because he gave her shit over it. Not because you offended her. If she was weirded out, she could have just said she just didn't want to risk messing up your friendship with each other.