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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-22 06:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #3061 ]


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kaijinscendre: (Default)

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-05-22 11:04 pm (UTC)(link)
Because innocent people get caught in the crossfire. It is like shooting into a crowd of people and then going, "It's okay that I killed 27 people because TWO of them were murderers."

This is the same reason I don't believe in the death penalty. Innocent people should not be punished because of the actions of the guilty.


Example: http://mashable.com/2015/05/11/darth-vader-selfie/
Edited 2015-05-22 23:07 (UTC)

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-22 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Not the best example you could have posted.

I think assuming this guy being a creep was perfectly justified.

Someone goes after your kids, you react, and anyone who has a problem with this does not know what it is to have kids.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-22 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
SA.

The moral of this story: Do not talk to kids that are not your kids.

See there are 4 different outcomes here:

He talks to the kid - And he is dangerous - Mother does not react - Kid gets Raped

He talks to the kid - And he is not dangerous - Mother does react - Everyone is embarrassed

He does not talk to the kid - And he is dangerous - No negative outcome what so ever.

He does not talk to the kid - And he is not dangerous - No negative outcome what so ever.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-22 11:57 pm (UTC)(link)
SA again.

Not relevent for the arguemtn I'm making but for sake of accuracy, there are 6 outcomes. the other two are:

He talks to the kid - And he is not dangerous - Mother does not react - No negative outcome what so ever.

He talks to the kid - And he is dangerous - Mother does react - Saves her kid from Rape.

My point being the easiest and most assured way for anyone to avoid any negative outcome is to not talk to kids that are not your kids.
kaijinscendre: (Default)

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-05-22 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Or, he says one sentence to kids because he is being polite. Mother (at most) tells some security a guy might have taken a picture of her kids. Nothing else happens because that is how rational people act.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
And how is the mother to know if that one sentence is "Where's the exit" or "I'm going to show you my penis"?

Not know how bad the situation is, you can't blame a parent for them taking the approach that the situation is as bad as it possibly can be.
kaijinscendre: (Default)

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-05-23 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
I can't blame her for going to security (even if I think it is an over-reaction). I can blame her 100% for posting a picture of him online calling him a pedophile.

You have got to be a troll.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
Do I really?Why is that?

And why Is it that you blame her? Do you have children? Do you know how heavy the burden of protecting young defenceless lives from all the harms that exist?

Leniency and "benefit of the doubt" are luxuries not afforded to people who have to protect their children.

If he had been dangerous, this post would have saved innumerable children. Going to security would have done nothing at all. In this case it was unnecessary, but a parent has a responsibility to look for, and ensure against, the worst case scenario.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Those kids are more likely to be hurt and molested by the mother than a stranger, so...

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 12:49 am (UTC)(link)
Technically, it's their father, but other than that IAWTC.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 05:30 am (UTC)(link)
No, mothers are still ahead of strangers. Almost everyone's ahead of strangers.
kaijinscendre: (Default)

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-05-22 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Fuck that. Someone taking a selfie is not an excuse to spread around his picture calling him a pedophile.

Thankfully, that guy seems to be pretty nice and isn't suing that stupid asshole for spreading such vile lies about him.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-22 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Because he quite literallt brought it on himself. He understands this, why can't you?
kaijinscendre: (Default)

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-05-23 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
The mother understands she acted like an irrational idiot. She understands this, why can't you? :(

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 12:03 am (UTC)(link)
Because I don't think that when it comes to the safety of children there is such a thing as over reacting.
kaijinscendre: (Default)

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-05-23 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
I have a South Park episode you should watch about this exact thing.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
na

Is it the one where all the children in town get their parents sent to jail for "abuse" and form a dystopic society in like three days? I love that one
kaijinscendre: (Default)

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-05-23 12:15 am (UTC)(link)
No, it is the "Child Abduction is Not Funny" one (though the one you mentioned is funny too).

This is the part I was thinking of, "...a news report states that the parents are most likely to abduct their own children (which is true even in real life, as most child abductions occur as the result of a custody battle). Blindly believing what they have been told, they send their children from the city in a tearful ceremony in order to avoid putting their children in danger of being kidnapped by their own parents..."
Edited 2015-05-23 00:16 (UTC)

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) - 2015-05-23 00:18 (UTC) - Expand

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
That's an absurd and stupid position, and you should feel stupid for saying it.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
You are by far the biggest asshole in this thread. I am not joking, people like you actively make the world a worse place to live in, and I hope that one day you realize how shamefully disgusting and unjustifiable your behavior is.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
DA

Maybe once they grow out of their terrible teens, they will.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 12:29 am (UTC)(link)
all of this
caerbannog: (Default)

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

[personal profile] caerbannog 2015-05-23 04:48 am (UTC)(link)
*blink blink*

Wow I didn't expect to see that news to pop up on FS. Guess it really did blow up :o
kaijinscendre: (Default)

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

[personal profile] kaijinscendre 2015-05-23 04:57 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, it got pretty big. Sort of nice to see people responding to how terrible the call out culture is.

Re: Is 'Call out culture' a good thing or a bad thing?

(Anonymous) 2015-05-23 02:01 pm (UTC)(link)
I have no desire to wade into this argument, but geez that seems like something my own father would do– he's always super friendly to kids especially, and we tell him all the time that he might get mistaken for a creep even though he's not doing anything wrong.