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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-05-22 06:06 pm

[ SECRET POST #3061 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3061 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Spec Ops: The Line]


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Re: Inappropriate questions

[personal profile] ibbity 2015-05-23 05:17 am (UTC)(link)
I haven't, for a variety of reasons. But I've only ever dated one guy in my life, so it's not like I've been dating willy nilly in general. I grew up in a VERY conservative community where you could not breathe a hint of same-sex attraction without bringing down some quite unpleasant consequences on yourself, so there was also that. Possibly related to this: all the girls I ever crushed on turned out to be straight and definitely would not have been interested in dating me.

I did occasionally try to go into GSM spaces online, but the lesbians there tended to be overwhelmingly hostile and aggressively unwelcoming to bi women, so I never engaged in any flirtations online or anything like that because I learned better than to let on to being bi where gay women congregated, and I wasn't gonna lie and say I was a strict lesbian.

By the time I was in a place where I COULD have dated a girl (provided that I didn't mind the fact that it would likely at least partially cut me off from most of my family and quite a few of my friends), I was already involved with my boyfriend. I love him and I don't regret involving myself with him, but sometimes I wonder what it would have been like if I could have explored that part of me before we got together.
Edited (paragraph separation) 2015-05-23 05:18 (UTC)