[ SECRET POST #3070 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3070 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 072 secrets from Secret Submission Post #439.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[fscom]

08. http://i.imgur.com/t1erl2P.jpg

[(Anonymous)]

I read that fic too.

Honestly, despite how "bad" everyone said it was, I just found it really over the top.

It's kind of funny to me that you had that reaction, though. Because I'm in a similar position: I have really small breasts that I'm hugely self-conscious about.

I suppose the only reason that I didn't try any of those enlarging options is that I knew they wouldn't work and so I didn't want to waste the money.

But I feel you OP. One of the ways I can easily tell that fic is written by dudes is how much focus there is on breasts and how they're often massive.

It sucks in a lot of ways because while I know not every guy prefers large breasts, it IS a MUCH more common in my culture and I always worry that anyone I get with is just going to be settling.

Of course, I've never put that theory to the test since I've never had a boyfriend.

[intrigueing]

One of the ways I can easily tell that fic is written by dudes is how much focus there is on breasts and how they're often massive.

This is the weirdest thing for me: there are SO MANY ways I can tell a fic is written by a dude, but it's so hard to pin most of the markers down, except for the focus on boobs.

[(Anonymous)]

"Settling"? Nah.

There are lots of straight men and queer women who like smaller breasts, and you'll probably find someone who's glad you didn't follow the crowd and add implants.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

That's exactly how I feel. That I'll find a good guy, but he's just going to be "settling" for me. I don't want anyone to have to settle.

Of course, there are many nice people in the comments below who will tell us that lots of guys will love our bodies for what they are -- and they may not be wrong.

[herpymcderp]

Not all people like big tits, OP. Even men! It might be difficult to imagine because of media portrayals, but it turns out that male humans are actually people with varied tastes and turn ons! Amazing!

Just as not all male-loving individuals* want "tall dark and handsome" with giant penises, not all female-loving individuals want tanned, blonde strippers.

You do you, and fuck what anyone else has to say about it. Confidence is sexier than looks, and more than half the time people who say they have a type don't even date according to that type. People don't know what the fuck they want, so why let someone's dumb fantasy dictate how you feel about your body?


*for the purposes of this comment; limited to cis males

[(Anonymous)]

Unfortunately you don't get to pick what random stupid stuff affects you. My main reason for never getting into any gothic stuff was my immortal. I read that fic, freaked out and threw out all my evanescence. I really loved that music before but everyone laughing about teen angst made me feel aweful.

[elaminator]

So I'm assuming this fic focuses on massive breasts?

If you look to media (or fandom) for what your 'ideal' appearance should be you're most likely going to feel inadequate. It's easier said than done, but you should try not to let other people's preferences affect your own self-worth so much. (I know, I know, most of us do from time to time. Just saying, it only makes you miserable and sets you up for likely unobtainable goals.)

Plus...small boobs are cute. Obviously that's just my opinion and everyone is not going to agree with it, but not everyone needs to. You aren't going to be attractive to everyone no matter what, so that shouldn't be a worry of yours.

Good news

[(Anonymous)]

Small tits are back in fashion.
At least that's what the media tell me.

Re: Good news

[(Anonymous)]

And so is being fat apparently.
Who gives a fuck what the media says.

Nothing is more beautiful than self-confidence.
Nothing is more ugly than someone obsessed with trying to be beautiful for people who judge based on looks.

[(Anonymous)]

You have no idea how good you have it. Let's trade.

OP

[(Anonymous)]

Wouldn't it be great if we could "test drive" breasts? Just to get over the envy.

Re: OP

[(Anonymous)]

Wear some kind of fake gelatin boob for a while?

The sad thing is, you might like it. I remember when a friend was going through MtF transition, and got so excited about having female breasts at all.

[(Anonymous)]

haha, that was my thought too but I'd probably feel the same way as them if I had small breasts instead of large ones. The grass is always greener on the other side I guess

[(Anonymous)]

Right?!!!! I'm a D-cup and I hate my breasts. They make me feel fat (especially since I'm 5'2"). I would kill for smaller breasts. The grass is always greener.

[(Anonymous)]

A huge proportion of grown women have "small" breasts and always will.

I guarantee there is someone out there who thinks your breasts are just wonderful as they are, and would consider it a shame if you grew them. Who's not a perv.

*Reads the background behind the OPs secret text*

[(Anonymous)]

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Lavender Labia?

Re: *Reads the background behind the OPs secret text*

[(Anonymous)]

Yep. It's a notoriously awful fic. Which my the secret all the more depressing!

[(Anonymous)]

Well I can't say I've read the fic.

But it's only the opinion of one person. I think small boobs are sexy so that's one more opinion to conter act that.

I wouldn't worry about a guy 'settling' for you. People tend not to date others if they're not attracted to them in the first place.

[(Anonymous)]

Konata disagrees with your assessment. (http://i3.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/000/551/359/6d5.jpg)

[(Anonymous)]

do pushups or bench-presses and the muscle you build on your chest will take you up a cup size at least, no joke. i'm surprised at how many women are not aware of this.

that said, i have E-something cups (I don't even know anymore, tbh) and they're a pain in the ass. back, actually, i mean back pain. i'd rather have small tits. besides, big boobs just get ridiculously saggy in the end. small tits stay perky longer.