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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-05 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #3075 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3075 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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14. [SPOILERS for Steven Universe]



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16. [SPOILERS for Harry Potter, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and DragonFable]



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17. [WARNING for sexual abuse]

(Duggar Family, 19 kids & Counting)


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18. [WARNING for incest]

[A Redtail's Dream]


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Re: tw: depression

(Anonymous) 2015-06-05 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
If she genuinely feels that way about you, then she's clearly not a good parent. You should probably just pack your shit and leave.

Re: tw: depression

(Anonymous) 2015-06-06 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
im tired and frustrated with her depression but i dont not love her and she doesn't not love me. it's not something i can cut contact and walk away from that easily. i try to ignore it as much as possible but i wish there was a way to fix it

she's not a good parent. she's been a mediocre one since forever. but someone doesn't deserve to be left to be depressed all alone just because they're a mediocre parent

different anon

(Anonymous) 2015-06-06 02:52 am (UTC)(link)
I have a dad who's also depressed, a somewhat mediocre parent (and he may have molested me??? I'm not too sure, my memories aren't clear, but I remember being uncomfortable and walking out), and one who vigorously refuses therapy/medication to cure his depression. Also I'm not gay, so he's not abrasive in that angle, but goddamn, can he disapprove the hell out of me and my mother sometimes. But anyway, the point of my post is this:

My advice is to work on your own stuff. It sucks being an empathetic creature who is aware of the suffering of those you care about, but your efforts to drag them out against their will can backfire. If they don't want to do something, that's all that there is to it.

If you do want to help though, think of little things that would you brighten your day a little if it were you. Maybe a phone call, an unexpected candy bar, etc. However, depending on how much this parent of yours is being an asshole [my dad is one], don't put put too much effort into those things because they may decide for whatever reason to not reciprocate your good will (holy fuck, I think I may have been abused as a kid now that I think about it).

Focus on yourself, and best of luck.