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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-05 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #3075 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3075 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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14. [SPOILERS for Steven Universe]



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15. [SPOILERS for Age of Ultron]



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16. [SPOILERS for Harry Potter, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and DragonFable]



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17. [WARNING for sexual abuse]

(Duggar Family, 19 kids & Counting)


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18. [WARNING for incest]

[A Redtail's Dream]


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Re: tw: depression

(Anonymous) 2015-06-06 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
Ok, this might sound harsh. But in some cases, there's only so much you can do. If she refuses to help herself, even with you offering to bring her to therapy with you, you're going to have to draw a line. Like say, "I'm very sorry you feel this way, and I'll do anything I can to help," and leave it at that. My mom's depression can get that bad at times. I've tried and tried to help her, suggesting classes, books to read, new hobbies to pick up, she'll have none of it. So that's where the line is drawn.

It's heartbreaking to hear that your mom feels that way because of your orientation. I would wash my hands of her if I was you; I understand you may not be able to right now. But that's so shitty and close-minded and AUGH. Hell, if I had ended up with a female partner (I'm bi), my mom might be the exact same. She's not religious, but she doesn't seem to think much of gay women. She never did fully acknowledge my last girlfriend. So.... ugh. Sorry for rant. Good luck. Take care of yourself first.