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fandomsecrets2015-06-05 06:30 pm
[ SECRET POST #3075 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3075 ⌋
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(Duggar Family, 19 kids & Counting)
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[A Redtail's Dream]
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Re: tw: depression
(Anonymous) 2015-06-06 01:56 am (UTC)(link)This is when tough love comes in. You are not responsible for her actions. She's a grown woman. And from the sounds of it, you are also a grown adult responsible for your own actions. What you are (gay) doesn't reflect on her. If she is upset that you are gay, that is her problem and her choice. The most you can do is "I'm sorry you feel that way, mom. I am who I am and I still love you." You ask her to go places. You tell her about therapy. And then when she decides to stay home and watch her soaps, you let her do it because she's a grown woman. The most you can do is be there for her.
She's not going to change until she decides to change. If she starts exhibiting high risk behaviors (alcoholism and drug abuse) then, okay, stage an intervention. Until then, you have to live your life too.
It's going to be hard. You have to take care of yourself too and this isn't good for you.
Re: tw: depression
(Anonymous) 2015-06-06 03:58 am (UTC)(link)there is no miracle cure OP, none of us in this thread can fix it for you, you can't fix it. only your mother can change. and she needs to decide to change herself.
be there for her to the extent of your abilities, but don't kill yourself trying to help her. she's a grown adult.