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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-05 06:30 pm

[ SECRET POST #3075 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3075 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Spy]


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[Eurovision]


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[Captain America]


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14. [SPOILERS for Steven Universe]



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15. [SPOILERS for Age of Ultron]



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16. [SPOILERS for Harry Potter, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, and DragonFable]



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17. [WARNING for sexual abuse]

(Duggar Family, 19 kids & Counting)


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18. [WARNING for incest]

[A Redtail's Dream]


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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #439.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: tw: depression

(Anonymous) 2015-06-06 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
You can't. You cannot help someone who doesn't want your help. I fully understand being unsympathetic about this, because it's perfectly natural. What it means though, is that while you can't do anything for her, you can (and should!) do something for YOU. YOU get out of the house more, make new friends, start new hobbies, do things that improve yourself and make you happy. You'll find being sympathetic easier if you don't have to put up with it 24/7.

If she complains or wants to use you as an agony aunt, gently disengage. "Mom, we've talked about this before and you already know my feelings on this." or "Mom, I agree you need help but this is above my pay grade. You really need to talk to a professional therapist/see a doctor."

Then tell her you love her and hope she feels better, and keep doing things for you.