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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-10 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3080 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3080 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-06-10 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
You don't /have/ to do anything with it, but you should think about how this gives you an opportunity to get out of the marriage. "I like girls" is a get out of jail free card that only the worse kind of asshole could hold against you.

(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 12:21 am (UTC)(link)
"only the worse kind of asshole could hold against you"

... or a court that might decide not to allow you to have custody of or visitation to your kids.

(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 12:38 am (UTC)(link)
Let's be honest, that is very very unlikely. In this day and age, any court that made that decision would be under such unbelievable scrutiny and negative press, it just wouldn't be worth it.

Also, and please understand, I'm not MRA, but they do have one thing right, we have their dicks in vices when it comes to custody cases.

(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 02:58 am (UTC)(link)
While that's true in some parts of the country, unfortunately it's not true everywhere ( and certainly not in smaller less urban areas.

(Anonymous) 2015-06-13 02:30 am (UTC)(link)
100% this. It depends on the case and the area. If the husband has a good job/has been a good provider and community member in a conservative area and Mommy has asked for a divorce because she's a 'godless lesbian' (hypothetical conservative opinion, not mine, because you know they wouldn't understand bisexulity) there's a good chance that the woman could lose custody in that case.

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[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-06-11 06:38 am (UTC)(link)
what even is this comment

(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 10:51 am (UTC)(link)
Which part are you struggling with?

[personal profile] cbrachyrhynchos 2015-06-11 11:19 am (UTC)(link)
The reality is that bisexual people, especially women, experience a lot of abuse within relationships.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2015-06-12 07:07 am (UTC)(link)
mostly the part where you think coming out as gay (or pretending to) will cause nobody to judge you for getting a divorce. also the massive assumption that anon must be unhappy in her marriage to her husband, which could be for a couple of "reasons" but I'm not sure which one you're going for here.