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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-10 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3080 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3080 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Dead Poets Society]


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[Tobey Macguire]


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[Billy Connolly]


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(Marvel Cinematic Universe/Marvel's Agents of S.H.I.E.l.D.)


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[Love Live]


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[Life is Strange]


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(Hysterical Literature/Walt Whitman)


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(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 12:22 am (UTC)(link)
Some people just have to wave a flag. Whatever.

[personal profile] cbrachyrhynchos 2015-06-11 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
True story, the first (and only person for over a year) to know my sexual orientation was a straight lover. She had a big problem with it, and never passed up an opportunity to throw her belief in my eventual non-monogamy and transition to full gay in my face.

(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, how very dare anyone even contemplate doing anything other than living their life in the closet. Those attention-whoring hussies.

nayrt

(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
But... if you're already with someone long-term, it doesn't actually matter who else you could date or marry.

Like, I'm bi too and still have no idea what the OP's problem is?

Re: nayrt

(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 12:01 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not so much a problem as just a new thing to deal with.

For example, what if your attraction to your husband wanes, but your attraction to women is growing at the same time? That happened to me for over a year. It was hard to deal with. I love my husband and didn't want to leave him, much less be unfaithful, but how do you explain that kind of thing to someone and not have it hurt them? Or you could just say nothing and pretend, but after a while that's worse and more hurtful to the other person than just coming clean, because if you're close to someone you definitely notice when they've stopped seeing you in a sexual way, and yet this same person is suddenly looking at women?

It's a bit simplistic to say there are never any complications, but the most important thing is honesty and love.