[ SECRET POST #3080 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3080 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Dead Poets Society]


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[Tobey Macguire]


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[Billy Connolly]


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(Marvel Cinematic Universe/Marvel's Agents of S.H.I.E.l.D.)


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[Love Live]


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[Life is Strange]


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(Hysterical Literature/Walt Whitman)


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Comments

[a_potato]

You don't necessarily have to do anything with it, but if you're actually thinking about how to come to terms with it, well...it can definitely be a very strange realization, especially if you've spent so much of your life thinking that you're straight and being comfortable with that.

Somebody else recommended reading a lot and finding a support network. That helps, especially the latter; just having another bisexual person to talk to can make it feel less "weird." Also, explore this side of yourself in a "safe" way (i.e. appreciating/admiring women like Hayley Atwell, people whom you know are out of reach). Part of accepting your sexuality is learning to enjoy it, and incorporating that enjoyment into your sense of self.

Maybe someday you'll feel like you want to talk to your husband about it. And maybe someday you'll find that you actually want to explore that part of yourself for real, and you'll have to go about crossing that bridge, but that may never happen, and you don't necessarily need to worry about it right now, anyway. Just focus on getting cool with it, and recognize that this part of yourself doesn't take away from the fact that you're married, and the fact that you're married doesn't take away from this part of yourself.