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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-10 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3080 ]


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(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
What... no, she brings it up constantly at random times too, not only when she's eating

I know she's sensitive about the weight, I would never bring it up on my own

(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
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I don't bring up what she could do or how I could help every time she complains, either. I was paraphrasing the last time we talked about it which isn't every time. After she called me rude and uncaring every time I tried to talk to her about it, I don't bother any more

Am still frustrated and annoyed but those are feelings not actions

(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 03:47 am (UTC)(link)
People are complicated and sometimes afraid of change. There is something deeper going on with your mom than ten pounds but it's also not your job to be her therapist. You have to detach yourself from her problems and find a way to live that makes you happy.
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[personal profile] chardmonster 2015-06-11 01:49 am (UTC)(link)
Okay but... still.

I think it's just one of those things we have to deal with. She's probably always going to be touchy about it.. best to drop it.

(Anonymous) 2015-06-11 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
nayrt - I agree that the OP would be be a jerk if they kept bringing it up to their mom when she clearly doesn't want to discuss her weight, but that's not what's happening? If the mom doesn't like advice, maybe she should drop the subject.