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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-06-12 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3082 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3082 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02. [SPOILERS for To The Moon]



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03. [SPOILERS for Orphan Black]



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04. [SPOILERS for Mad Max: Fury Road]



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05. [SPOILERS for Devil Survivor 2]



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06. [SPOILERS for Mad Max: Fury Road]



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07. [SPOILERS for Saga]



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08. [SPOILERS for Daredevil]



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09. [WARNING for rape]



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10. [WARNING for rape/dubcon/etc]



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11. [WARNING for rape]

[Bloodborne]


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12. [WARNING for suicide]



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13. [WARNING for suicide]

[Kiwi!]


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14. [WARNING for suicide]



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15. [WARNING for incest]



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16. [WARNING for rape/sexual assault]

(Rick and Morty)


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17. [WARNING for abuse, sexual harassment]

(My Mama's A Weeaboo!)














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(Anonymous) 2015-06-13 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
You sound like someone who's never lived with an emotionally abusive or controlling parent.

They will punish you if you try to resist, punish you for things to keep you under control. For fuck's sake the girl got thrown out when she tried standing up to her mom if you read the whole thing.

Yes the girl has a problem- HER MOTHER. That's literally her problem. The girl is not stupid or weak for not being able to resist her. To blame her for being forced into going along with her mom is victim blaming.

"Why does he let his dad hit him?"

"Why does she let her husband do that to her there must be something wrong with her".

(Anonymous) 2015-06-13 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
"Why does he let his dad hit him?"

"Why does she let her husband do that to her there must be something wrong with her".


Those aren't really equivalent. One is a child and the other is an adult. In the case of the latter, women who allow themselves to be battered (and often allow their children to be abused as well) generally do have something wrong with them. That's not the same thing as saying that it's her fault... it's saying she's got emotional problems that keep her in a bad relationship.

(Anonymous) 2015-06-13 02:42 am (UTC)(link)
...generally being abused does CAUSE emotional problems. Also its not uncommon for battered wives to not be in a place where they have the financial or social support to leave, also usually because of the abuse.