ext_33427 ([identity profile] degrees.livejournal.com) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2008-01-24 03:39 pm

[ Secret Post #384 ]


⌈ Secret Post #384 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Phoenix Wright fans, check it out!

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 50 secrets from Secret Submission Post #055.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 ] broken links, [ 1 2 ] not!secrets, 0 not!fandom, [ 1 ] I don't either.
Next Secret Post: Tomorrow, Friday, January 25th, 2008.
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

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(Anonymous) 2008-01-25 08:57 am (UTC)(link)
This is a good approach, too. But I have attempted IM with one of them and they...really didn't seem interested. So it did make me back off a little. However...all this encouragement I am receiving is making me want to try again. I think you're right when you say that...sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. I just have to learn when enough is enough, that I tried my best, and move on.

My confidence is...really nonexistent. Yes, you're right. But I do not show that to anyone. My comments, entries, everything are really pleasant and not clingy at all. The difference is there are a few people on my flist that I am comfortable around so I aim my entries at them (as in, like they are the only ones reading) and it makes me comfortable posting. But when I decided to submit a secret here? Well...I lurk a lot here and I see people flame secret posters and some OPs I don't think meant to come off negative (or deserve such flames). F!S is outside my comfort zone, basically. I also...was afraid people would misinterpret my secret as attention whoring. I really wasn't sure what responses I was going to get.
As for the last point- no. My unresponsive friends have no idea how I feel. But a few I am not comfortable admitting that to since they never bother to reply to comments I leave them. I fear it would be too out of the blue, you know?

I will keep trying of course, because I am not one to give up and I really appreciate all the advice I've gotten. I also thank you for given me kind, honest advice. :)
And I'm so sorry I made this such a long reply. x.x!