[ SECRET POST #3086 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3086 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Bit early, sorry!

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 062 secrets from Secret Submission Post #441.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Leave him. Violently if necessary.

This is what we call a red flag. He does not respect you if he shares your secrets.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Violently if necessary

lol what does this even mean though? like, she should throw a rock at his head with a Dear John letter tied to it?

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Like if he tries to stop her, as I believe he will, she should be willing to fight to get away from him.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Lol. You got that out of what OP said?

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Well, when the OP says that their male openly disrespects her, anyone who knows the psychology of abusers will see this as a massive red flag.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

"Their male"? LOL. You are the best.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Once. Once they told a close relative something that wasn't specifically confidential.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[insanenoodlyguy]

Don't feed the rad!fem troll.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[diet_poison]

oh man, you ruined it with "their male".

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

I think they already ruined it in their initial comment with "violently if necessary." I could've bought it otherwise, but that just made it sound vaguely psychotic and bizarre considering that the OP never made any indication that this guy was remotely abusive

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Rad!fem anon, is that you?

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

sure, why not?

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

maybe it's coffee!anon

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Ahahahahaha. Or scotch-tape it to an arrow and shoot it at him Hawkeye style.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Dial it back a little, drama llama, geez. I'm all for DTMA when necessary, but this is a fairly minor screw up if that's all that happened so far. You don't know if he's an asshole who violates peoples' boundaries or a clueless doofball and if the OP wants to find out which he is, OP will need to establish her boundaries and then see how he conducts himself in the future. If he apologizes and respects her privacy, then it's fine.

"Violently if necessary"... LOL! Considering switching to decaf, anon.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Down to mess around??

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Ditch the Motherfucking Asshole

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Did you just make that up right now?

Stop trying to make ditch the motherfucking asshole happen, anon. It's not going to happen.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

DA

They didn't make it up, I think Dan Savage did, and I'm pretty sure it's actually "dump the motherfucker already".

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

I've seen it defined that way on various message boards. Evidently that's not its original meaning?

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

Nayrt

I've generally seen it as Dump The Motherfucker Already, like Other Anon said.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

I agree, I think op should cut on him a little. Maybe carve 'youre dumped' into his chest. Of cousre I'm not going to pretend this some political statement. I just like the idea of hurting and scaring dudes.