[ SECRET POST #3086 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3086 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Bit early, sorry!

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 062 secrets from Secret Submission Post #441.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

No, you're not wrong. It's time for you and this guy to have a conversation about privacy and boundaries. Not an intense, yelling conversation, but you owe it to each other to lay out what are obviously very different expectations for each other. Avoiding the topic won't really help, it assumes this guy is savvy enough to figure out he's crossed a boundary and savvy enough not to cross any future boundaries... but frankly, if he were that sensitive, he probably wouldn't have blabbed this to his cousin in the first place.

Be honest with him that this isn't okay, and you expect things like this to be in confidence between the two of you unless you state otherwise. Then be alert to see how he handles it.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

This.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[elaminator]

+1.

I don't have much to add, just that OP isn't wrong or weird for being upset and I agree that they need to discuss this with him ASAP. You need to straighten things out, and he needs to respect your privacy. (And personal wishes.)

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

This is damned good advice.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[diet_poison]

Yup. Good comment is good.