[ SECRET POST #3086 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3086 ⌋

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Bit early, sorry!

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Comments

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[leisuretime]

You're not at all wrong to be upset, but you are wrong to think it's sufficient to think he got the message after one question. You need to have a conversation that includes your expectations on privacy.

Also, this thing about the cousin you think he wants to bang feels like sour grapes. Like you're mad at something he did, so now you're looking for things to paint him in a bad light. And that's...understandable from a psychology standpoint, but not very cool.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

This. If OP needs to clearly define her boundaries. If you make your boyfriend guess and punish him when he's wrong, that's a bit messed up but it's also a recipe for failure. Use your words. If you're adult enough to be in a relationship, you're adult enough to talk to one another.

Whether or not he wants to bang the cousin is a separate issue, and OP needs to make sure she isn't letting her jealousy cloud her judgment and perceptions.

Re: Am I wrong to be upset about this?

[(Anonymous)]

OP

Also, this thing about the cousin you think he wants to bang feels like sour grapes. Like you're mad at something he did, so now you're looking for things to paint him in a bad light. And that's...understandable from a psychology standpoint, but not very cool.

I can definitely see how it could come across that way, but I really do feel like there's some truth to it. When I first met him, she was there, and I thought they were a couple (he was kind of on the periphery of my group of friends for awhile before we started dating, and had brought her to a party). Other friends are constantly making comments about their relationship, so it's definitely not just me who sees it that way. I probably was being a little bitter, though.

Either way, it no longer matters. I'm sure it'll be awkward if he still hangs around my friends but I feel like it's definitely for the best.