[ SECRET POST #3093 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3093 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Hitchhiker's Guide to The Galaxy]


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[Brendon Urie/Panic at the Disco]


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[Steven Universe]


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[Bones]


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[Ghostbusters, Bill Murray]


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[Game of Thrones]













Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

Re: Groups you hate

[(Anonymous)]

Do not get me started on your first point. I keep seeing that tumblr post going around about "Sometimes introverts don't want to go out and they cancel last minute because of anxiety AND YOU JUST HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT, YOU UNGRATEFUL EXTROVERTS". Do you know what also causes anxiety? Sitting in a bar for yourself for 30 minutes waiting for someone to show up because they canceled on you without actually letting you know.

Re: Groups you hate

[kaijinscendre]

Exactly! Yeah, I don't like going out and doing shit. But if I promise someone I am going to do it, I sure as fuck do it.

Also (maybe Tumblr introverts don't get this because they NEVER go out), I usually have a great time once I get there. I might be anxious leading up to it and exhausted afterwards, but it is usually worth it.

Re: Groups you hate

[(Anonymous)]

Anxiety is different for different people and your experiences may not be any more typical than their experience.

I know, for me, it can go both ways - there are times I can force myself to go and then have a great time, and there are times I force myself to go and I'm a nervous, miserable wreck. And I expect most people who are introverts (or have anxiety issues) are probably somewhere on that spectrum, and that not everyone is in that category where it's almost entirely anticipatory anxiety.

I do agree that it's very rude to just not show up to something - at the very least have the decency to let the person know (and give plenty of warning about it). You can't just ghost.

Re: Groups you hate

[(Anonymous)]

Do you know what also causes anxiety? Sitting in a bar for yourself for 30 minutes waiting for someone to show up because they canceled on you without actually letting you know.

This. In fact, shit like that is partly how I became more antisocial myself. I just don't trust people not to pull that kind of thing.

(The exception being actual mental health issues and the like.)