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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-06 07:03 pm

[ SECRET POST #3106 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3106 ⌋

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Re: Anyone else in this position?

(Anonymous) 2015-07-07 01:39 am (UTC)(link)
I guess that's true. I know I shouldn't compare myself to him, but old habits are hard to break. A part of me does want to bond with him over this because it's been getting harder to keep it in and I'd really like someone to talk to about this and it's been getting really lonely these past several years. At the same time I'm pretty bent on just waiting for my parents to die of old age so they never find out. My brother and I have an amicable relationship now, but there was a time where he was gone for several years of my life so we're not particularly close. So even though a small part of me wants to tell him, the rest of me doesn't really trust him to keep it a secret from our family. I feel shitty thinking like that though...
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Re: Anyone else in this position?

[personal profile] sarillia 2015-07-07 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
I have a complicated relationship with my brother too. I understand. I also understand wanting to talk about this. I went through an obnoxious phase after coming out to some friends where I felt like every time I was around the people I trusted enough to tell that I was basically doing nothing but shouting "I'm GAY!!" I was just so relieved to be able to talk about it and couldn't stop. I kind of want to recommend to everyone that they find someone to talk to before they reach that point because it's pretty embarrassing to look back on.

Anyway, I hope you can figure out what will make you most comfortable.

Re: Anyone else in this position?

(Anonymous) 2015-07-07 02:13 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not out to anyone except for a few people I talk to online, though I don't feel particularly close to them and I more or less keep to myself. Maybe not having someone else to talk to is part of the problem. I'm not very good at making friends, but maybe that'll change when I have some space away from my family.

But thanks for this, I really appreciate it. :) Hopefully I'll be able to figure something out.