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fandomsecrets2015-07-07 06:54 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-07-07 06:54 pm
[ SECRET POST #3107 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3107 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Fire Emblem: Fates]
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[Ocean's 11]
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[Little Nicky]
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[Devil Survivor 2]
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[Sens8]
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[Mariqueen Reznor]
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[Battle Creek]
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[Lucifer (TV)]
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[Neil Gaiman]
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 037 secrets from Secret Submission Post #444.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: If someone only wants to hang out with you when theyre sad?
(Anonymous) 2015-07-07 11:36 pm (UTC)(link)2. they might be using you as a crutch
3. they might not realize they're doing it
any of these, but especially 2 and 3, are valid reasons to pull back from, re-evaluate, or reconfigure a friendship
source: had this friend. many times. most recently found myself under a tree at 4 am being sobbed to because i, with 10 minutes warning, was expected to just magically produce a place to stay for a friend on a mostly-abandoned campus
Re: If someone only wants to hang out with you when theyre sad?
There are any number of reasons they might come to you (and like anon said, they might not even realize it themselves), but if you can't depend on them to be there for you when you need it, that isn't a true friendship. If you want to cut contact with them or discuss the issue that's totally understandable. You have to look out for yourself too.