[ SECRET POST #3107 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3107 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Fire Emblem: Fates]


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03.
[Ocean's 11]


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04.
[Little Nicky]


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[Devil Survivor 2]


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[Sens8]


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08.
[Mariqueen Reznor]


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09.
[Battle Creek]


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[Lucifer (TV)]


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[Neil Gaiman]









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Comments

Re: If someone only wants to hang out with you when theyre sad?

[(Anonymous)]

I'm sort of the quiet, gives-good-advice friend in my circle, I never blare my own drama and tend to be the "listener" when someone needs to talk.

That sort of personality got me several of those "friendships". The ones who would only want to talk to me when they wanted to be depressed. Before, I felt like I was being a good person by being there for sad friends. But really what ends up happening is that you get used. If they aren't eager to be friends when their happy, that's a flag. If all of their constant sadness just ends up depressing you, that's a flag. If you feel like you have to devote so much time and energy into these happiness-suckers who just want to use you as a free therapist, seriously, re-evaluate the friendship.

Obviously, can't speak about your personal situation. But just from my experience, I've learned when to either subtly redirect things or hint my feelings of the situation, or just completely start cutting that person from my life.