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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-07 06:54 pm

[ SECRET POST #3107 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3107 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Fire Emblem: Fates]


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[Ocean's 11]


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[Little Nicky]


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[Devil Survivor 2]


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[Sens8]


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[Mariqueen Reznor]


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[Battle Creek]


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[Lucifer (TV)]


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[Neil Gaiman]









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Re: Families, realizations about, etc.

(Anonymous) 2015-07-08 01:17 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry you have to go through that

*hugs*

(Also, I'm sorry if I sound like an ass and I hope I'm not offending you, but what you described sounds a lot like your father might be a narcissist. Again, sorry for making assumptions, but I was raised by one and... yeah.)

Re: Families, realizations about, etc.

(Anonymous) 2015-07-08 01:25 am (UTC)(link)
na

I didn't really get that impression tbh (I mean, he really could be a narcissist for all I know, but this post in particular didn't really indicate that to me, at least not with the details that have been given). It sounds more like he's just severely in denial and unwilling to accept the fact that his pet is dying. Things like are pretty common. Hell, we don't just do it to pets, we do it to people as well all the time because even when someone is desperately and direly ill enough to believe that ending their life is genuinely the best option, a lot of people will refuse to accept that and encourage their loved one to keep hanging onto life for their own peace of mind. I would say that it's the opposite of being narcissistic, although it's certainly still selfish.
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Re: Families, realizations about, etc.

[personal profile] feotakahari 2015-07-08 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
My mother just talked to him, and they told me to stop giving the medicine to the cat. Dad spent the whole conversation sitting on the couch, stroking the cat over and over. I think he probably needs that hug more than I do.

Re: Families, realizations about, etc.

(Anonymous) 2015-07-08 01:34 am (UTC)(link)
da

That's so sad. It sounds like both you and your father are in a really awful position :( I hope that your cat finds peace soon