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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-09 07:10 pm

[ SECRET POST #3109 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3109 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Sense8]


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[Gatchaman Crowds]


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[Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along Blog]


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[Twin Peaks]


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[Blue Beetle]


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[Metroid]


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[God, the Devil and Bob]


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[The Cell (2000)]


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Re: Is this horrible?

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-07-10 01:42 am (UTC)(link)
It's usually considered a bad thing to speak ill of the dead, but I don't really buy that this is "speaking ill" of someone. It's being honest.

Also, context, company and tone are a very important part of this equation. Whose business is it really that he never loved his first wife? If this is something said in confidence to friends or his new lover? Is he remorseful? Is it something he tweets to the world?

All of these things matter in how we judge if a person is really "heartless" in an action.
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Re: Is this horrible?

[personal profile] elaminator 2015-07-10 02:48 am (UTC)(link)
Yea, not loving someone doesn't make you an awful, heartless person, and it's not wrong to want to be yourself, but I do think there are ways to be insensitive about it.

We don't have enough context to decide though. (And people can make mistakes without being the worst kind of scum, but again, I'm not willing to judge from this example. Saying "I was never sexually attracted to or romantically in love with my wife" to a lover is a lot different than tweeting insulting things about her.)