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been reading related article http://www.xojane.com/it-happened-to-me/boyfriend-diaper-fetish

Animals?

Also, infantilism doesn't mean you want to fuck children. That is called pedophilia.

It wouldn't take much. Anything to do with feces or urine, for example, because no. Just no.

- poo, so no diapers if he actually wants to use them, but I could deal with it if the diapers were just a costume item

- rape fetish, at least if it's for being on the "active" side of this, rather than the passive one

- wanting to dominate me in general

- food and sex. Not a fan.

Foot fetish. Not an uncommon one, but since I am really grossed out by feet, including my own, that would be a deal breaker for me.

Are you assuming we're all straight women or gay men?? Like half of us are bi/lesbians, be inclusive! :P

Things that would make me stop dating a woman: idk probably most weird fetishes are a turnoff. It's one thing in fanfic and porn, but I think real life me wouldn't be able to take it seriously, would get skeptical, and would have trouble playing along. I could do like basic bondage, toys, whatever. But if they wanted to do the really weird stuff, I think I'd be turned off. Like pretend I'm a pony, or some really weird elaborate role play.

I mean, if I really liked them, I'd try to make it work - within reason. But I guess if they had some fetish that was an absolute must, I'd think that was weird anyway.

Half? Ehhh. Maybe 7% of you.

Re: What fetish would make you stop dating a guy?

herpymcderp - 2015-07-13 23:37 (UTC) - Expand

Re: What fetish would make you stop dating a guy?

(Anonymous) - 2015-07-13 23:43 (UTC) - Expand

Same answer as below for me. Although, "I like gay porn" would likely be a big warning sign early in the relationship.

For many things, it's been there, done that, and had the stupid t-shirt. Granted I'd probably be a high-maintenance person under the best of circumstances, but I think it would require a really special person with a very high degree of trust to get back into kink again.

Most of them. I'd say I'm pretty vanilla these days.

No kink would make me stop dating a guy. Most fetishes wouldn't either. Sure, there are things I'd rather not be party to but there are plenty of workarounds for instances like that.

Someone actively being a pedophile or pederast would make me stop dating them, though. That sort of crosses the line from fetish into pathology though.

Same.

Whatever, like feet if you want to as long as you don't demand to do anything with mine or that I do anything with yours. Or insist one room of the house must be wallpapered floor to ceiling with pictures of feet or something else drastic but that would be more about how they're losing control or perspective of their kink than the kink itself

Re: What fetish would make you stop dating a guy?

herpymcderp - 2015-07-14 03:33 (UTC) - Expand

Most toilet play (I may try to have a guy pee on me like in the shower or something if that's something that really turns him on and maybe I'll like it, but that's as far as I'll go in that direction.) and I don't think I would be too into blood play or anything that leaves permanent marks. Nothing to do with real animals or kids (though may be down to try pet play and age play)

Honestly, I'm down with trying most things at least once though (Just nothing to do with actual shit.)

Shit fetish. Anything that involves too much work. I'm lazy.

I once dated a really nice guy who was into shrinking and decapitation (non-gory, it was more like Miss Fortune from Skullgirls). It just weirded me out way too much. Very nice guy otherwise.

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(Anonymous) - 2015-07-14 05:41 (UTC) - Expand

not a guy, but I once dated a girl who was super into necrophilia. we broke up before I could see how that played out in the bedroom (I'm going to go ahead and assume she wouldn't have literally killed me or anything, but beyond that idk.)

Re: What fetish would make you stop dating a guy?

(Anonymous) - 2015-07-14 02:22 (UTC) - Expand

If it belongs in the toilet and you want to play with it, stay the hell away from me. That goes for anything relevant to it, like diapers and the like. I'm also not down with humiliation, no matter which side of it I'm on. Guys who assume just because I'm really subby when it comes to D/s play that I want them to humiliate me are out if they aren't willing to leave the degradation at the door.

Anything else I think I could work around? I mean, I've got some weird stuff I enjoy myself, so I can't really judge for the most part.

bronies

Baby stuff

I don't care about fetishes, but when it comes to "can we explore this kink together/can you help me be kinky" the answer's no. I've explored my own kinks and sexuality and discovered that I'm too vanilla to make a good kink partner.

but if he wants to jack it to bdsm porn or wear lacy panties, fine by me, because he's going to have a hard time asking me to stop wanking to tentacle porn.

Diapers, poop, piss, bestiality, pedophilia.

This guy I was with recently keeps trying to choke me. I don't ask for it and he doesn't ask me for permission, he just does it which is kind of scary sometimes, so I gently move his hand in the middle of it. I like the feeling of his hand there, but I'm not into choking at all. I feel bad because I think he really likes it and I like him a lot. :(

Depends on what kind of diaper fetish....does he poop in the diaper? I don't think I would want feces on me at least not intentionally. Blood letting would be too much for me too, not that I have any experience with it, but I assume some people are into that.

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(Anonymous) - 2015-07-14 16:47 (UTC) - Expand

Not many. I'm pretty loaded with weirder fetishes. Poop stuff and age play are no gos, though. Just nawwww.

Fetish that would turn me off dating a girl:
Pedophilia
Bestiality
Scat (but not pee?)
Hypersexuality
If she were a dominant / dominatrix / whatever the term
Excessively submissive
I guess hardcore bdsm all together actually

Related but sorry if she has a dick... No...

Re: What fetish would make you stop dating a guy?

(Anonymous) - 2015-07-14 11:36 (UTC) - Expand

I stopped dating a guy because he couldn't get into sex with me without wanting to drag another woman into it. I'm not bi, I'm straight, and he could not accept this.

rape or non-con in any form

I guess anything else involving unsanitary bodily secretions would be gross too.

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