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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-13 06:36 pm

[ SECRET POST #3113 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3113 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-07-14 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
Are you me? My brother is the exact same way in that he expects me to take care of his kid without ever asking me and if I show even the slightest reluctance (just reluctance, I never say no) then the guilt-tripping comes out on all sides from my brother and my parents. In fairness to my parents, he walks all over them too, especially my mother. I honestly just wish he would ask me about it beforehand. I've had to cancel plans because he'll come by in the morning and drop her off when presumably the other day he's given me indication that he wouldn't. It wouldn't be so bad if he didn't drop off piles of laundry for me to do at least 4 times a week. No questions asked, he just expects me to do it for him. For free.

The only plus is that my mom is less stressed now that he's gone. I can't wait until I've gotten enough money saved up to get away from him. The desire to move out of state gets stronger every year.

(Anonymous) 2015-07-14 09:47 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry. But the more you give in, the more he feels entitled to do this to you. It feels easier and less confrontation to do what he wants, but you're only making it harder for yourself in the long run. If you want people to respect your boundaries, you have to establish AND defend them.

(Anonymous) 2015-07-14 11:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Stop doing his laundry!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-15 01:45 am (UTC)(link)
This.

(Anonymous) 2015-07-15 06:17 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly! Give it back in the filthy, crumpled state in which it came, skidmarks, cumstains and all.