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fandomsecrets2015-07-15 06:43 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-07-15 06:43 pm
[ SECRET POST #3115 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3115 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Tom Selleck]
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[Kylie Bunbury]
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[My Life as a Teenage Robot]
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[The Raid 2]
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[Ore Monogatari]
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[noel fielding]
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[Matsumoto Jun, Arashi]
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[The Quiz Broadcast (That Mitchell and Webb Look)]
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 027 secrets from Secret Submission Post #445.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
Re: To FSers out there in relationships
I find my husband very attractive and I'm in love with him, but that isn't particularly special or telling. There are a lot of attractive people out there, and a lot of people with whom I could fall in love. I decided he was "the one" in the sense that I wanted to marry him because we have enough overlapping hobbies and interests that we get along as well as friends as we do as lovers; we have similar values, goals, and temperaments; we are able to live together without a lot of conflict; we work well as a team; we communicate well; we're both committed to working through issues; and we both bring out the best in each other and inspire each other to be better people.
Granted, my situation is a little different, because we're open (although semi-closed at the moment due to impending baby). But we're always one another's top priority, and while I like seeing other people from time to time, I'm not sure I'd want to tie myself to anyone else in as serious a way as I'm tied to him.
Oh, also: if the thought of committing forever to one person freaks you out, then you might want to explore non-monogamy, or you might want to just...not ever commit to someone in that way. There's nothing wrong with that.
Re: To FSers out there in relationships
Re: To FSers out there in relationships