[ SECRET POST #3118 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3118 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Little things that bug you

[kaijinscendre]

When someone says something like, "We need to talk." to you on FB or text. And when you go, "Yeah?" or "What's going on?" AND THEN THEY DON'T RESPOND FOR LIKE 2 HOURS. I always think something really bad has happened.

Re: Little things that bug you

[diet_poison]

ohhhhh myyyyy gooshhhhh

or when you're having an argument or other really bad interaction, and then they just shut you out and don't talk to you for like two days

I'm not usually prone to anxiety; that's one of the only things that can drive me to it

I get that people need their space but I wish they'd say "I need space, I'll get back to you". Because if they don't I'm always afraid they're never going to talk to me again. (And yes, that particular outcome has happened. So that doesn't help.)

but yeah anyway tl;dr ominous words/behavior + lack of communication = bad times

Re: Little things that bug you

[kaijinscendre]

It is so fucking annoying and stressful.

Re: Little things that bug you

[diet_poison]

It is sooooo stressful. :(

Re: Little things that bug you

[ketita]

People who suddenly shut down and refuse to talk are THE WORST. I fucking hate silent treatment. Be angry, but communicate about your anger ffs.

Re: Little things that bug you

[(Anonymous)]

THIS

And no, "You know what you did" doesn't count as communication. Last time I checked I wasn't a goddamn mind reader.

Re: Little things that bug you

[diet_poison]

Really. And like I said, I get that people need space. People handle conflict in different ways, I tend to try to confront it and eliminate but other people need space to think or unwind before tackling a conflict. That's something I was not good at respecting growing up so I want to make sure I don't suffocate people, metaphorically speaking.

But I do ask, and it is not asking very much, that (general) you TELL ME that you need said space. Because that's not the only reason people shut other people out, and I'm not a mind reader.