Case (
case) wrote in
fandomsecrets2015-07-22 06:54 pm
[ SECRET POST #3122 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3122 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[My Name is Earl]
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[Veep]
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[Welcome to Night Vale]
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[Wes Anderson]
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[Felicia Day]
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[Oscar Jarjayes/Rose of Versailles]
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[Holly Madison, Girls Next Door]
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(Game of Thrones)
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(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 07:00 am (UTC)(link)Did you ever apologise to that anon that told you you'r bullying drove them to attempt suicide? Or did you write that off as them being an ass-hole to you and being over sensitive and fuck them? Not actually trolling here, I genuinely don't remember. I would guess the latter, but if I'm wrong, I will apologise. If I'm right, Herpy owes you jack shit.
*I slept through this last night, so these are my reactions.
(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 07:07 am (UTC)(link)because it's been mentioned a million times but i've never seen a link and i'm kind of wondering if it's just an urban myth
(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 07:11 am (UTC)(link)If anyone provides you a like, please let me know if I'm wrong so that I can deliver my apology.
(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 08:02 am (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
Basically an anon accused me of driving a friend of theirs to attempt suicide but refused to provide evidence when asked and asked Case to delete the thread. So, no, without evidence what am I supposed to apologize for?
I'm waiting for someone to accuse me of raping and murdering a girl in 1990.
(ps "not actually trolling" is usually a dead giveaway that you're trolling, I suggest you not use that phrase next time)
(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 09:57 am (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 05:24 pm (UTC)(link)1. You hurt someone badly enough that they tried to take their life. You may not feel you owe them anything, but an apology would have been the human thing to do.
2 You upset someone badly that they lied about trying to take their life. Maybe an apology could mend some fences there? but even if you don't care about that, what would you have actually lost? Other than if as previously mentioned apologies are about status to you and not about mending hurt, and you're just unwilling to give ground on it.
I mean, jesus, wouldn't most people hedge their bets and consider the potential feelings of the person in scenario 1 over whatever the game plan of the person in scenario 2 was? I mean, is the possibility that you might not have driven a person to suicide all you need to not care about the possibility that you might have done?
Also, Just out of sheer morbid curiosity, what would satisfy you that you had upset someone this badly? Giving their name and address? Photos of the scars? If they used pills are they just shit out of luck? How would someone prove this? Or is that the point "They can't prove it so Lalala I'm awesome Lalala and I never need to take accountability!"
(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 05:27 pm (UTC)(link)I mean you're terrible, stalker!anon but
lmao
(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 05:28 pm (UTC)(link)I am pretty confident that, if this did actually happen, dethtoll would be sorry about it. Given the context of the Internet as a whole it's reasonable to have doubts. I don't think it's helpful to anyone to try to emotionally blackmail someone over some shit like this. You're a bad fucking person.
(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
(Anonymous) 2015-07-23 06:28 pm (UTC)(link)(frozen comment) Re: Your lowest moment
just wow
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wowwwwww
There's also possibility 3: That they're full of shit. Kinda like you.
I know I should just disengage, but this is serious enough that I'm going to tell you what I told the original accuser: I don't want to be responsible for someone hurting themselves, I would feel pretty shitty if that were true, but this is such a major accusation I need evidence. Even just a link to the supposed thread where I was supposedly so horrible to someone would suffice, because then I'd have some idea what the fuck I was apologizing for. I'm not going to apologize sight unseen, especially when the accusation came at the tail end of a long thread where the anon basically said I was an evil person who doesn't care about anyone and never apologize for my behavior (despite me doing just that elsewhere in that very thread.)
Did I ever get that link? Nooooooo. Anon said she had no proof of anything beyond the original confrontation, which she refused to link to. She just said "someone on Fandom Secrets tried to kill themselves because of you" and thought that would be evidence enough.
I'll freely admit to, and apologize for, the occasional lapse in judgment (read: sometimes I'm a dick!) but allegedly bullying someone into suicide? I need to see what I said that was so terrible, because that takes some pretty vile, focused behavior and that's just not something I do. Not even with Herpy.
This conversation is over.