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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-24 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #3124 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3124 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02. [repeat]


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[Sherlock]


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05.
[Video Girl Ai]


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06.
(Whiplash)


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(Hannibal fan commenting on Neil Gaiman's American Gods series)


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08. http://i.imgur.com/WNtDaEJ.jpg
[Bram Stoker's Dracula, linked for porn / iirc it's rape in the story]


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09. [WARNING for rape]



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10. [WARNING for rape/child abuse]



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11. [WARNING for child abuse]
http://i.imgur.com/f8cCfkZ.png
[For the Love of a Child, linked by OP request]


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12. [WARNING for suicide]

[Welcome To Hell]




















Notes:

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Asexuality

(Anonymous) 2015-07-24 11:55 pm (UTC)(link)
desiring sex with the person they're romantically attracted to doesn't necessarily mean you desire sex, it could mean you want to do it for their sake, or because of the intimacy... like not caring either way for green peas but wanting to make a green pea dish for your partner because it's their favorite thing

Re: Asexuality

(Anonymous) 2015-07-24 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Huh? Desire means you want something.

Re: Asexuality

(Anonymous) 2015-07-24 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
what i mean is that the desire could be things that arent the sex itself but rather things that are a result of the sex, like "feeling intimate through this action" or "to please their partner" or as simple as "acting like a typical couple and doing what they feel typical couples should be doing"

Re: Asexuality

(Anonymous) 2015-07-24 11:59 pm (UTC)(link)
ayrt

They've specifically said they're not doing it FOR their partners. They have high libidos and are doing it for their own satisfaction as much as for their partners'. But, they're more interested in having sex with their partners than with random people due to the emotional connection and the lack of ability to feel sexual attraction.

Re: Asexuality

(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
if it's "more interestied in having sex with their partners than with random people" i dont think it's completely unreasonable, obviously you would trust your romantic partner more than a random person so if sex happens for some reason they'd rather it be with a person they trust?

do they state they are sexually attracted to their partner, or that they would rather have sex with the partner than with random anon?

Re: Asexuality

(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Oh I don't think it's unreasonable either. That part's not confusing to me at all.

"do they state they are sexually attracted to their partner, or that they would rather have sex with the partner than with random anon?"

They would rather have sex with their partner than with a random person, and they say they don't experience sexual attraction, but that they DO have a sex drive, and would want sex even if they weren't in a relationship. they just don't ever feel attracted to anyone in that way.

Re: Asexuality

(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 12:11 am (UTC)(link)
maybe if you look at it like someone + a bunch of sex toys

they get horny so they use them but its not like theyre attracted to the toys. maybe they see random people as means to an end more than as persons to be attracted to? any phallic-shaped or vagina-shaped object is fine, they arent attracted to one over the other or ones attached to anybody, whatever works to release the undirected horniness?

i dont know, thats the only way i could see it making sense

Re: Asexuality

(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 12:13 am (UTC)(link)
ayrt

I think you might be right! An anon further down had a great comment that kinda goes along with this and made things make a lot more sense:
http://fandomsecrets.dreamwidth.org/1252915.html?thread=851551795#cmt851551795