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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-24 06:34 pm

[ SECRET POST #3124 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3124 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02. [repeat]


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03.
[Sherlock]


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05.
[Video Girl Ai]


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06.
(Whiplash)


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07.
(Hannibal fan commenting on Neil Gaiman's American Gods series)


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08. http://i.imgur.com/WNtDaEJ.jpg
[Bram Stoker's Dracula, linked for porn / iirc it's rape in the story]


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09. [WARNING for rape]



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10. [WARNING for rape/child abuse]



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11. [WARNING for child abuse]
http://i.imgur.com/f8cCfkZ.png
[For the Love of a Child, linked by OP request]


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12. [WARNING for suicide]

[Welcome To Hell]




















Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #446.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Asexuality

(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 09:03 am (UTC)(link)
If you're having sex with others, and enjoying having sex... can you really be considered asexual at that point? While I get what you're saying, there seems to be an obvious scale of asexuality here, with actual asexuality being akin to vegetarians, asexuals who masturbate more like pescatarians, and "asexuals" who are enjoying having sex with other people like... the Meatless Mondays version. Or just, not really asexual at all at that point. I mean if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck...

Re: Asexuality

(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 12:21 pm (UTC)(link)
As far as I understand it, sexuality is not about how much sex you have, it's about who you're sexually attracted to. What you're sexually attracted to is a different issue to how high your libido is. A gay man who develops a crushingly low libido for medical reasons is not suddenly asexual so long as he's still attracted to men, yes? He might be celibate, but that's not the same thing. Someone in denial about their orientation is unlikely to change it by having a lot of sex with the gender they're not attracted to, either, even if they happen to enjoy that sex on a physical level (though I understand sexuality can be fluid there). Hell, even within the same orientation, if you're lusting after one person, having even marathon sex with someone else might not change that fact, if what people have told me about lust and desire are true. Who you feel attracted to need have very little bearing on who you have sex with, how often you have said sex, or even how much you enjoy said sex (at least on a physical level).

So I'd say the same is true for asexuals. Having all the sex in the world doesn't change the fact that there's no physical attraction involved in it. If the lust you feel isn't particularly attached to anyone, or the idea of anyone, if it's just a purely physical urge that sometimes you might enjoy sharing, then I'd say you could well be asexual.