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DA
(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 09:07 pm (UTC)(link)You're still fucking being disgusting there. Taking about disabled people as if they're not human and then pulling the "BUT I CARE ABOUT THEIR CARETAKERS" argument is still being massively ableist.
It's not wrong to care about the families. But using that as an excuse to treat a human being as if they're subhuman is fucking ableism. That's the kind of attitude that gets disabled people murdered and their murderers let off scott free.
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 09:17 pm (UTC)(link)Re: DA
(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 09:19 pm (UTC)(link)I'm sorry your brother was a dickbag. but that doesn't mean it's right to treat disabled people as subhuman.
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 09:21 pm (UTC)(link)Re: DA
(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)Having a bad experience with a member of a group doesn't give you the right to take away the humanity of everyone else like that.
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 09:40 pm (UTC)(link)How are you any different? Really your attitude sounds like the same attitude in the opposite direction. Sorry to say but you don't sound much different from your brother. What's YOUR excuse? Your sob story?
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 10:34 pm (UTC)(link)Re: DA
(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)Sorry but you can't use "i had a horrible time with this kind of person" to justify being a bigot.
It's not victim blaming to tell someone that it's not okay to call a large group of people subhuman.
You're too wrapped up in "awww but he SUFFERED" to see that his behavior is shitty. Having a sob story is no excuse to be a bigot.
Also I have a sibling with the same condition. They were treated like shit for their condition and I'll tell off anyone who considers people like them to be "sub human". Is OP's suffering more legit than the suffering of another person?
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-26 02:51 am (UTC)(link)Re: DA
(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)Ever hear of the phrase "it's a reason but not an excuse"?
That applies here. The anon's experience my be the reason for his attitude, but it doesn't justify the fact that he is saying a group of people is subhuman.
It's not victim blaming in the least. In the real world a bad experience doesn't justify you from doing something wrong or saying something wrong. People are still going to criticize when you say things like "this entire group of people are below human". The anon said something kind of shitty. He isn't protected from criticism.
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-26 01:09 am (UTC)(link)And if I'd ever mentioned anything about high-functioning autistics being the rightful rulers of the world, I would've been (rightfully) soundly mocked and probably had my faced punched in. I was and sometimes still am an annoying walking encyclopedia of weird facts and dumb trivia. But I try not to be an asshole, because it is possible to learn how not to be one.
Your brother sounds like an ass, but tbh it sounds like a family tendency. Nothing like "we were gonna dump you in a home, but no-one would take you because you're a nutcase" and "how's it feel knowing you ruined my life and our parent's marriage, you freak?" to shore up your brother's mental stability and show him how to be an empathetic human being.
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-26 01:18 am (UTC)(link)Honestly OP sounds just as bad,e specially with the "if I could I would force a cure on him, he ruined my family's life woe is me". I mean the fact that OP takes such offense to the mere idea that autistics aren't subhuman.
I bet OP was a hell of a bully themselves to their sibling.
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(Anonymous) 2015-07-25 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)Can you explain what's wrong with it? Just saying "shut up" is a weak argument.