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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-07-27 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #3127 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3127 ⌋

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Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 12:00 am (UTC)(link)
What about "I cooked for several hours each day", including all of the cleaning up involved, doesn't sound like helping out to you?

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
What did "I'm not saying your dad is being reasonable" sound like to you?

I was commenting on the general expectation of people helping out around the house, not saying your dad should never have to cook for himself because you're around.

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 12:08 am (UTC)(link)
Okay, I misunderstood. It's just a lot of work and when I'm doing school and doing full-time work I think it's ridiculous that I also have to put food I prepared on a plate for him and put it in the microwave.

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 12:16 am (UTC)(link)
I completely agree and sorry if I came across like a dick. I was commenting on something that maybe was out of place in this topic, mostly inspired by several twenty-something-year-old acquaintances who live at home and throw tantrums whenever their parents ask them to maybe do the laundry or something. I don't think it's unreasonable if your parents ask you to prepare meals every once in again if you have the time, but waiting on your dad is something else completely.

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
OP is not your relative, and if you'd taken off your personal blinders for a second to actually pay attention to what they were saying, you'd have seen that their Dad is essentially treating them like the help. Not cool.

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not sure why you're reminding me that OP is not my relative? Thanks? And my point stands, adults who live at home should be expected to help out around the house. And also her dad is being unreasonable. Just like I originally said.

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 12:25 am (UTC)(link)
You were acting like a dick to the OP.

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 12:28 am (UTC)(link)
meh if you're offended by the suggestion that adults ought to help out around their parents' house and decide to take it personally, then I don't know what to tell you

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
lol okay, now you're clearly just here to get a rise out of people

goodbye

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
Her dad is also a dick.

Being a parent isn't a free pass to act like a child.

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 06:01 am (UTC)(link)
hehehe, as we gonna reach adulthood.... stuffs and things

also, those immature whiner. not against op, but really? other people....

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 02:11 am (UTC)(link)
Oh so you're another one of those commenters who has to project your dissatisfaction with personal acquaintances onto strangers on the internet

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 09:23 am (UTC)(link)
Guessing by the ultra defensiveness of random anons, I assume there's lots of people living at home who hate helping out lmao

Re: Rant thread!

(Anonymous) 2015-07-28 09:56 pm (UTC)(link)
Or there's a difference between "helping out" and "being the literal maid so everyone else can fuck off."