[ SECRET POST #3132 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3132 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Were you a bully?

[(Anonymous)]

I do think it's self-serving.

No, I don't think all kids were bullies. But most probably were, at some point. That kid who you only teased just a couple of times in elementary school probably thought you were a bully. No one wants to consider themselves to have been a bully, especially if they were victims of bullying themselves. I don't think very many people look back on things they did and said and high school and have the maturity to say, "Wow, so-and-so might've considered me a bully."

It's not just about stalking kids after class and stuffing them into lockers.

Re: Were you a bully?

[(Anonymous)]

I don't consider most of the kids who teased me a couple times - or even frequently - bullies. It's not about whether someone considers me a bully, it's about what I understand bullying to consist of.

people have different definitions of words sometimes, it's a thing that happens

Re: Were you a bully?

[(Anonymous)]

nayrt

yeah the anon you're replying to is weird imo. they're insisting everybody admit they were a bully because someone else might have thought they were a bully, then insisting they think everyone is a bully, and using circular logic to prove themselves right

Re: Were you a bully?

[(Anonymous)]

were you bullied? it doesn't work that way in my experience. some kids might see them as a faceless mass of "bully" im sure, but others can see that there are definitely ringleaders- bullies, direct followers- bullies as well, then everyone else who isn't a bully but isn't on your side, either... but they aren't the ones going after you or other people.

Re: Were you a bully?

[ketita]

Have you considered that your personal experience is not everybody's? Or perhaps it's that you realize that you were indeed a bully when you were little, and are trying to tar everybody else with the same brush?