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fandomsecrets2015-08-01 03:51 pm
[ SECRET POST #3132 ]
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(Anonymous) 2015-08-02 03:54 pm (UTC)(link)"If I said that about someone I was dating, would you believe me?"
Actually, I suppose that's kind of rude. But it does seem like the people who feel the greatest need to shout praises from mountaintops are either in the new stages of a relationship, or they're seriously miserable and are trying to convince themselves otherwise.
Her language definitely gives it away. IMO sexual attraction is just as important as having respect, expressing love, etc. What would you say to someone who said to you, "I'm not attracted to you at all, but I'm willing to stick with you"? How would that make you feel? Completely sexy and completely valued as a partner and human, right? Saying "worth sticking with"... does she think she'll get some reward for dating him? That one day, he'll magically turn from a frog into a prince? That maybe she'll play a part in "changing" him? That's definitely not a good reason to ever date anyone.
And there's that other part where she goes on about how much HE loves her and how HE cares about her, and never about how much SHE loves him and how SHE cares about him. Interests are fine, but they're not everything. It doesn't sound like she has a boyfriend, more like a doormat she's willing to be faithful (if not celibate) to.