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(Anonymous) 2015-08-02 04:06 pm (UTC)(link)I've had those kinds of experiences too. I thought you "had" to give your number to a guy who asked for it, otherwise you were being a cold fish and completely disrespectful and young adult ladies just don't do that.
I'm not knocking the act of making friends/lovers that way; plenty of folks are cool with doing that. But it's definitely not something for me.
I think my problem is all the pretentious bullshit, and the whole meat market feel of dating. I don't feel like I'm being respected as a human, as the person I am, because it seems like the only time a non-taken guy will talk to me is when he's interested with what's between my legs (at that point, he must be desperate, because there's nothing about me that advertises "single and looking"). "Taken" guys feel more real because they're not putting on an act to hook up with someone (unless they're complete assholes). They already have someone. So, I've just backed off of that whole scene and decided I need to be happy with myself first before I even think of pursuing someone (non-taken). I may not get married until I'm like 90. I may never get married. I may be married when I least expect it. I just don't want that to be my life's greatest tragedy.