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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-02 03:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #3133 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3133 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Guild]


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[Harvest Moon: (More) Friends of Mineral Town]


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[Gump, from Legend]


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(Agent Carter)


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[Jeeves and Wooster]


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[Lupin III]


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[Courtney Love & Kurt Cobain]


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(SPN)


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[Kasumi Goto, Mass Effect]











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Re: When is it time to break up with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2015-08-03 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
I think being honest with her is fine. Her behavior is inconsiderate no matter how you slice it. Either she's not interested in being friends anymore and is too much of a coward to be straightforward, or she's a flake who doesn't really care enough about inconveniencing her friends to change her habits.

I'd stop planning things with her, quite frankly. If you still want to see her as a friend, I'd wait till she initiates, and then I'd say something like "That sounds great, but the problem is that you end up canceling on me a lot at the last minute and I'm kind of left hanging. What can we do to make sure that doesn't happen again?"

If she gets angry and defensive, shrug and write the friendship off. It doesn't sound like you're missing out on much.