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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-02 03:57 pm

[ SECRET POST #3133 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3133 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[The Guild]


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[Harvest Moon: (More) Friends of Mineral Town]


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04.
[Gump, from Legend]


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(Agent Carter)


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06.
[Jeeves and Wooster]


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[Lupin III]


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08.
[Courtney Love & Kurt Cobain]


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(SPN)


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10.
[Kasumi Goto, Mass Effect]











Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 057 secrets from Secret Submission Post #448.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: When is it time to break up with a friend?

(Anonymous) 2015-08-03 10:57 am (UTC)(link)
It really looks like she ditched her plans with you because something else came up, she realized she couldn't afford both outings, and she preferred to spend her money on the date with other friend than on the planned goodbye dinner with you. Other times when you've had plans with her, she ditches you often than not, with minimal notice or none at all. Somebody who stands you up with no explanation afterward, for anything but an emergency, is not a friend. Period. You don't have to make excuses for her.

I vote for telling her exactly what you're tempted to tell her. It may be harsh, but it's obvious that your friendship is a very low priority for her (and so is basic courtesy). Plus, you've tolerated her rude treatment of you for longer than most people would, and she has taken that as a message, not that you're nice and a patient, forbearing friend, but that it's okay to treat you as an inferior grade of friend and be rude to you.