[ SECRET POST #3134 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3134 ⌋

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Wish me luck

[(Anonymous)]

It's not-bff birthday today. I took your advice and I blocked her phones but I'm still worried that she'll notice the block and contact me some other way. Like she knows my tumblr unfortunately and we have so many mutual friends and I haven't outright told her I don't want to see her anymore because I don't want to give her the opportunity to argue for a chance or go nuts and say cruel things. I unadded on steam and Facebook but she knows my emails and where I live and work :(

I hope she gets the hint and leaves things alone, but just on account of her behaviour with bf... I'm hoping she's not as attached to me as she acts and will go away.

But I'm still stressing caus it's only been 3 months since she last tried to contact me. I ignored it so I'm hoping its a good sign that she hasn't tried to text me since. Maybe that high school catchup made her realise it's time to move on.

Re: Wish me luck

[(Anonymous)]

I must have missed your other post(s), but I'm sorry you're dealing with that. :/ Is there any way you can block her on tumblr? I know it's a bit difficult with reblogging, but at least make it so she can't access your page or leave notes?

Re: Wish me luck

[dahli]

Good luck, anon. Cutting people from your life is not easy, but if you truly think it's for the best, then do it and don't look back.

Re: Wish me luck

[dethtoll]

My advice is just cut her off completely, filter her emails, and if she shows up in person threaten to call the cops.

I was surprised how easy it was to cut my emotional vampire ex-friend out of my life considering how many mutual friends we had. Apparently they were all sick of her too -- especially after she tried to get me in trouble with my boss.

Re: Wish me luck

[(Anonymous)]

If I recall your previous post, your friend was not physically violent or confrontational, yes? She was mostly a verbal pain in the ass, which is not great but I think maybe your anxiety is a little high for the situation at hand. She hasn't contacted you for months, it's not a sure thing that she will contact you again. But if she does you are handling it like a champ.

Continue blocking her on all social media. If she tries to get at you via your mutual friends, be honest but laid back with them and say that you and X have grown apart and you're not interested in continuing the friendship, so you'd rather your mutual friend NOT pass on messages or news, thanks. Then change the subject and ask how your mutual friend is doing, etc. etc. Remember, you actually do have a lot of control over this and there is absolutely not point running yourself ragged with worry about what X might do. Take sensible precautions, and if you feel she might get physical, plan for that. How well it turns out depends a lot on whether or not you can keep a cool head, so take a deep breath. You can do this!