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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-08 03:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #3139 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3139 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2015-08-09 06:16 am (UTC)(link)
Hi! AYRT.

I think it's very interesting because your explanation describes me to a T-- for as long as I can remember, I don't fantasize about IRL people; I'm not interested in having sex with someone if I'm not in a romantic relationship with them first (and having never been in a relationship, I've yet to become interested in sex with anyone yet); and I only fantasize about other cartoon characters with each other, never with myself. Usually they're both not even my gender either.
In my case I just figured it's because I didn't find "the one" yet, since I can still get romantically attached to people without thinking about them sexually at all. I wouldn't know for sure, but... I just feel like my sexual attraction would develop for that individual SO after I get into a relationship, after which I'd feel comfortable knowing that the other person is ok with me thinking about them sexually.

"while some on the other end of the spectrum enjoy fantasizing about sex or even having it because it feels good physically/provides intimacy/+a lot of other reasons even if they aren't sexually attracted to the person they're having sex with."
That's really interesting. That really helped for me to define difference between attraction and libido. Thanks!

All that said, I acknowledge that there are those out there who feel truly asexual. I'm just asking questions to try to figure out more about myself out as well, as my sex ed and romantic history is pretty much nonexistent. Thanks for taking the time to explain this!