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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-13 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #3144 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3144 ⌋

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Re: relationship bullshit; warnings for tl;dr, possible eating disorders, all-around stupid bullshit

(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 11:34 pm (UTC)(link)
...what kind of pain meds is BF on? B/c the side effects of pain meds that target nerve pain list irritability, loss of appetite, and anxiety (which can manifest as paranoia). Just a thought.

Re: relationship bullshit; warnings for tl;dr, possible eating disorders, all-around stupid bullshit

(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)
nayrt - This is true, but there are no pain meds than turn you into a dick who is unable to realize he's being a dick and who refuses to apologize. It might exacerbate bad behavior, but it's not an excuse for bad behavior. He can be in pain and depressed and anxious WITHOUT taking it out on other people, and if he slips up, he can apologize.

Anon's BF has done none of those things. So it doesn't matter what pain meds he's on or what side effects they cause.

Re: relationship bullshit; warnings for tl;dr, possible eating disorders, all-around stupid bullshit

(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 11:53 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT

He's not on pain meds anymore, actually! He did have all those side effects, but he's not in so much pain anymore after the successful surgery.

However, his herniated disc was really severe, and he might have some lasting damages from it; like numbness and reduced mobility. So that's of course been really hard on him, and has probably worsened any depression and anxiety he has. He has the opportunity to go to a rehab center after his operation, and I really hope they'll offer counseling or group talks as well.