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fandomsecrets2015-08-13 06:46 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2015-08-13 06:46 pm
[ SECRET POST #3144 ]
⌈ Secret Post #3144 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Grace Kelly, Judy Garland]
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[Soragumi, Shizuki Asato]
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Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 020 secrets from Secret Submission Post #449.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Re: relationship bullshit; warnings for tl;dr, possible eating disorders, all-around stupid bullshit
(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 11:44 pm (UTC)(link)So it sounds to me, from this very limited description, like your relationship has turned into more of a caregiver situation than a relationship between two equals. Your bf has every right to be grumpy because healing sucks. On the other hand, he needs to respect that you are caring for him as best you can. When you start saying things like he criticizes what you cook, will "accept" takeout sometimes, etc., it really sounds like he is being both incredibly childish and overbearing/manipulative.
I have no idea how long you guys have been together, so I'm not sure how much work you're willing to put into this. But you need a partner, not a child. He needs to step up and take responsibility for himself, even if it's just in small ways like making a suggestion as to what you could have for dinner before it becomes a dire situation. If he's not willing to do that, and keeps blaming you for not caring for him properly, you need to ditch him before he drags you down further.
Re: relationship bullshit; warnings for tl;dr, possible eating disorders, all-around stupid bullshit
Re: relationship bullshit; warnings for tl;dr, possible eating disorders, all-around stupid bullshit
(Anonymous) 2015-08-13 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)