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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-13 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #3144 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3144 ⌋

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[Grace Kelly, Judy Garland]


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Re: relationship bullshit; warnings for tl;dr, possible eating disorders, all-around stupid bullshit

[personal profile] fingalsanteater 2015-08-13 11:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh man, this hits home so hard you don't even know. But, yeah, he's manipulating you into feeling bad because he feels bad. He also wants to see you worry and cry over him because it probably makes him feel loved.

Now me, I'm the master of insincere apologies and fake tears just to get shit over with because dealing with drawn out pouting and "you don't love me" or "you're trying to hurt me" bullshit when it's clearly untrue is just not what I'm about.

I mean, how do you usually resolve these situations when he wants an apology you aren't willing to give?

Re: relationship bullshit; warnings for tl;dr, possible eating disorders, all-around stupid bullshit

(Anonymous) 2015-08-14 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
AYRT

Thanks. Don't take this the wrong way, but it's...really comforting to know I might not be the only one dealing with crap like this?^^* I hope you're okay!

It...I'm ngl, it does often end with me pulling that fakepology you're talking about, because at some point we're both too exhausted to keep it up? But like...I feel like I shouldn't do this anymore. So here we are.

Eventually, of course, he *will* eat, even though that can take days sometimes. I just really hate to wait this out, you know? But yeah, he's an adult; he needs to make these decisions himself and I need to not fret about it.