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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-13 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #3144 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3144 ⌋

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[Grace Kelly, Judy Garland]


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Re: relationship bullshit; warnings for tl;dr, possible eating disorders, all-around stupid bullshit

(Anonymous) 2015-08-14 12:01 am (UTC)(link)
Obviously I don't know the entire story, just what you've told us. Even so I'm going to say you're not totally in the wrong.

Yes, what happened last night might be because he's in pain or because of medication or because he's frustrated he's dependent on you. But his previous behavior wasn't exactly stellar either.

I've been/am (?) depressed, I have issues with food, and it can totally suck and occasionally it has made me want to strike out at the people closest to me. But feeling shitty doesn't give you the right to make others feel shitty too.

He's a grown man, hopefully capable of some rational thought. He loves and cares about you and after all you've done for him he should know you feel the same way. That should be enough for him to at least try to empathize with you and your situation.

And yes, I do suggest getting some therapy. This isn't healthy for either of you.