[ SECRET POST #3144 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3144 ⌋

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[Grace Kelly, Judy Garland]


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Comments

Re: relationship bullshit; warnings for tl;dr, possible eating disorders, all-around stupid bullshit

[(Anonymous)]

Oh man I wish I had the time to respond to you properly but I don't, but I just wanted to say I'm getting some pings here that are not good in terms of how your boyfriend is acting, reminds me of my partner who I'm having major issues with. It takes difficult times in the relationship to really bring out true selves and dynamics. His asking YOU for a list of restaurants and rejecting everything you suggest - passive, immature, "you are well and I resent that, you do the legwork mentally too" when you're doing HIM a favour - is there the sense in the relationship that if he suffers, you have to take on his unhappiness, he has to hold your health over your head, ie is he acting like a martyr? And now he's not eating, FFS, that is NOT your responsibility for him acting like a silly toddler, that sounds like manipulating you into feeling sorry/concerned for his "hunger strike" and abandoning the fact that you're pissed off with him behaving badly. Refuse to take responsibility for the things he CAN control, cut the emotion, shrug, say something like, I'm sorry, I'm trying to help you, there's limited options here. Don't feed into the drama he's trying to create to drag you into his self-pity.