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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-13 06:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #3144 ]


⌈ Secret Post #3144 ⌋

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Re: relationship bullshit; warnings for tl;dr, possible eating disorders, all-around stupid bullshit

[personal profile] herpymcderp 2015-08-14 02:50 am (UTC)(link)
It sounds to me more like these are control issues than pain issues.

Which ...is quite understandable given that he likely feels that his life is out of control at the moment (this is a very common reaction to a chronic/ongoing injury). That doesn't mean you're required to put up with his trying to control you through food choices or otherwise. It does mean that he should likely talk to a psychologist about the issues he's having, because you are quite correct that this sort of thing can and does result in eating disorders.

Ultimately this is not your problem to fix, nor is it a problem that you can fix. The best course of action would be to try to convince him to talk to someone.