[ SECRET POST #3146 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3146 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Advice Thread

[(Anonymous)]

A friend of mine just asked me if I wanted to go to a social event in a few hours. And I kind of don't, because it's really short notice, and it's going to be full of people I don't know very well, and it'd be a hassle to get there, and I'm just tired and groggy today and I want to relax.

At the same time, I'm worried that if I don't go he'll take offense and think that I'm giving him the slip. That he'll think it's weak sauce. And it has been a little while since we hung out, and I feel like this is his peace offering to me.

Pretty basic dilemma, I know, but since it's happening in real time I thought I'd post about it on here.

Re: Advice Thread

[silverr]

Asking you last minute sounds to me like you're a fallback.

Can you say, "I really don't feel like going to this social thing on such short notice, but I'd love to spend time with you some other day" ?

Re: Advice Thread

[sarillia]

You could say this is kind of short notice for this event but suggest something else the two of you can do together soon instead.

Re: Advice Thread

[(Anonymous)]

Politely decline by saying you're wiped out and aren't up for it tonight but ask if he'd like to get together to do ______ at a later date. Initiating a plan for another get together shows that you're interested in hanging out.

Re: Advice Thread

[(Anonymous)]

He asked you last minute, so I think it's okay to say no.

Re: Advice Thread

[caerbannog]

"Sorry I can't do it tonight on such short notice, how about x date?"