[ SECRET POST #3147 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3147 ⌋

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Re: Sister's BF I've mentioned here before

[(Anonymous)]

Good for your sister. A lot of people in her situation feel guilty because they feel responsible for their partner, but... he's a grown ass man. He is fully capable of dealing with his own drug problems, helping out around the house and planning dates for someone he supposedly loves and he chooses not to do any of these things. That last part is important. Because seriously, if he really believed that your sister was his true love and the only one for him, then what's keeping him from doing some laundry or cooking her dinner? Why can't he say, "Babe, this weekend let's

People who love you will treat you like they love you. They won't be all talk and no action. Tell your sister to ignore what he says and look at what he does. Frankly, I don't think she should've given him a month's grace period, because how long have they been together? If he hasn't been able to clean up his act in all that time, what difference will a month make? Answer: none.

In relationships, you want a partner, not a dependent and certainly not a selfish man-child with a drug problem who lies to you. Way too many women put up with shit like that, and the reward they get for all their trouble isn't a mature adult, it's more childish behavior from a dude who thinks he can escape growing up because the women in his life will always be there to clean up his messes and pat him on the head before going off to make him a sandwich. Fuck that shit. Many women want to believe their love and hard work will cure a man, but it won't. He's responsible for curing himself, your sister needs to worry about her own welfare first for a change.

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That is what I've been telling her. And she can't ever have kdis with him. She'd basically be a single parent. She asked him once what he would do if they had kids who needed medication and he said, "Well, I guess you'd have to keep it hidden from me."

Re: op

[(Anonymous)]

WOAH

Re: op

[(Anonymous)]

That is what I said. And what I bring up as much as possible. REMEMBER HE WOULD STEAL HIS KID'S MEDS?!?!!?

Re: op

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah. This guy is waving a shit-ton of red flags to tell your sister he's not the right guy to be with, not the right guy to marry, and definitely not the right guy to have kids with. It's on your sister to get that message, even though it's not what she wants to hear. I don't know how willing she'd be to try therapy, but it might be useful for unpacking why she'd stay with a guy who so clearly does not want to be there for her and isn't even good at hiding it.