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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2015-08-16 03:35 pm

[ SECRET POST #3147 ]


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being weird about rp

(Anonymous) 2015-08-17 12:05 am (UTC)(link)
I have this very weird and specific problem while rping... I have noticed that the *relationships* of a particular character make me legitimately angry. It's a love triangle and I'm not in any way involved in it, but every time we talk about it I get really disproportionately disgusted/pissed off. And I feel super snarky.

I like them all as roleplayers (and ppl), they're really nice. I have no problem with love triangles. My characters are only involved with them as friends. I have no problem with their characters having sex, or whatever. And when I notice bitchiness coming up in me I really try hard to reign it in.

But I really wonder where that comes from? Does anyone experience something similar? Or have any idea??? I'm just baffled by my own brain.

Re: being weird about rp

(Anonymous) 2015-08-17 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
I get that but I also get that when people talk about their RL relationships so I think it's related? I'm not jealous, I'm not single myself, but it's awkward sitting there listening to someone talk about something you're totally uninvolved in and assuming you'll care

If it's some kinda funny story, ok, it's a funny story. If it's some kinda problem they're having that they want help or you to listen to, ok, but that goes for every topic. If it's oooooomg Billy looked at Sara, oomg Bobby is looking at Billy oomgggg Sara is cheating with Peggy I could not give less of a shit about your random drama that has nothing to do with me

The best I can do is be mildly happy for you that you're enjoying yourself so much but spare me the details I do not need live updates to the minute about what happened in every post. It's a lack of self awareness almost, that literally nobody is as excited about your own ships as yourself

Re: being weird about rp

(Anonymous) 2015-08-17 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
y'know, just after i wrote this i realised it's because i feel like a third wheel like 80% of the time, like when i'm playing with them i'm just in the way.