[ SECRET POST #3149 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #3149 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Sexual compatibilty

[(Anonymous)]

what your missing is the thing that can't be solved by having a chat about your wants and needs: what happens when you don't know what you want or need. In other words, if your preconceived ideas of sex are way off from what your body wants, coupled with your partner's preconceived ideas of sex being way off from what they and you want.

let's be real most people waiting until marriage aren't googling techniques and preparing a repertoire while exploring themselves fully inside and out so they can come to the wedding bed with a game plan. They're going to remain ignorant and imagine what it should be like, and when it's not at all like that, they get disappointed and rifts get started and that's why so many unhappy married people email Dan Savage every day.

you can't talk about kinks, frequency, libido, or even "hey there's more than penetration" if you don't even know what you want. or if your partner has no clue. there's education, and then there's overcoming years and years of bad habits, complete ignorance, and that's even before we touch selfishness.

Re: Sexual compatibilty

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NAYRT

Yep. It's the same reason people can talk about every detail of living together for years, try it out, and realize they can't stand each other.

Re: Sexual compatibilty

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nyart

That's a good comparison. I'd trust my best friend and her boyfriend with my life, but there's a reason my knee-jerk reaction was "fuck no" when they offered to let me live with them.